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Saturday, October 31, 2015

"You Can't Text A Tough Conversation" Book Review

Technology. Communication. Can the two go hand in hand?

Mike Bechtle explores these two elements in his fourth book. At first I thought the book would address more the use of technology and ways to combat having and using technology and still be able to have conversation. He does make the introduction with mentioning technology, but shifts to the main element of conversation. Bechtle explores the deeper things that make up conversation, with relationships being at the core: how we interact, how we listen, how we are as individuals, how we relate to others, etc. Those things all influence and are basics of how we approach actual conversation. And conversation isn't actually talking, but listening as well.

I admit, I was a little disappointed on the focus about the building blocks of conversation and not the focus on technology. But, after reading the book I can see how "conversation" needed to be dissected first so we know what things can make or break good conversation. As with other books of this nature, I get a little bogged down in the explanation some times. Examples are great to make a point, but sometimes I feel like saying, "OK, I get it already." I felt that a few places in the book.

Bechtle adds statistics and study information to backup and add credence to his writing, which I always fund interesting and helpful. There were several pages that got "dog-eared" because of points he made or observations that were impacting. Something else that Bechtle does is add quotes from various sources, from famous to anonymous, as a "prelude to the chapter". Some I actually laughed out loud on they were that funny!

Bechtle, does brings the book full circle and concludes with things we can do to use technology for good and not evil in sustaining the life of old-fashioned conversation. Technology is here to stay. It's how we use it (or not) that makes the difference.

Overall, 4 stars.

(I was given this book for free by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.)

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Gone But Not Forgotten...

Even though you may be gone from this earth, you will always live on in our hearts!

Roscoe

Roscoe
A good walking buddy and awesome frisbee catcher! Life cut short by a brain tumor.

Tuffy

Tuffy
If ever there was a candidate for Dog Heaven, it would be Tuff. Tuff was put to rest December 7, 2012. At almost 14 years old, he threw the longevity curve for dogs of his breed-makeup and size. He battled 2 types of cancer and Cushing's Disease as well as arthritis. Faithful to the end and never grumpy, depite the constant care and nagging from me. Always the protector, gentleman and companion--you will be sorely missed by all who had the opportunity to know you.

Cranky Thomas

Cranky Thomas
Ever wonder why it's called "Life On CT Farm"? The horse you see in the pictures is Cranky Thomas, a registered quarter horse gelding. He was born May 5, 1980 in Galion, Alabama and passed away August 3, 2004 on CT Farm--his farm. He originally belonged to my husband, but I adopted him and I think he adopted me. We competed together in contest classes at local horse shows. But, an old injury finally slowed him down and I retired him in 2000. He was a loving and patient being that I completely trusted and admired. There will never be another like him, never. He meant so much to me that I named our farm after him as well as my company, Cranky T. LLC. He's gone now, but is still with me and now you.

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